Carpe diem!

I think I know the moment I became disconnected with myself. While residing in Buffalo, I allowed myself to settle for any mediocre job opportunity that was at hand, for the sake of making ends meet. I hated every second of each temp job I attained. During this time I allowed other people-employers-to look at…

Friendships never die, unless you want them to

Sitting across the dining table at BBQ’s from two of my middle school best friends (just a small percentage of our larger girl group) made me realize although life changes in ways we sometimes hardly ever imagine or expect them to, certain things remain intact. I haven’t seen these two beautiful women with the exception…

A long overdue Thank you

Thank you for holding my hand during moments I pulled away Thank you for reaching for a kiss even when I stubbornly resisted the urge to feel the warmth of your love Thank you for pulling me close and embracing every flaw and fault even when I  refused and pulled away from you Thank you…

“It doesn’t even matter”

It doesn’t matter how good your sex is It doesn’t matter how strong your head game is It doesn’t matter when and how much you say you love him and text/call to prove how much you care Once a man’s interest in you has faded, he’ll be moving on to the next one and you’re…

Brothers Lessons

As a child, you teased me making sure my skin was tough enough for the cruel world and mean kids. As a child, you showed me the definition of unconditional love. As a child, it was you who taught me to fight with my hands, making sure I protected myself at all times. Protect myself…

“If I ruled the world” America’s Youth Edition 

Recently I’ve been on an obsessive binge watching spree of Radio interviews. I have this urge to be educated by the latest media coverage, podcasts, blogs, documentaries and interviews. Whichever source has some vital points and topics of interest, I’m all eyes and ears. At this stage in my life I’m beginning to realize the…